Being a girl sucks

Don't get me wrong, I love being a girl. I love wearing heals, dressing up, playing with my hair, having boobs, all the great stuff! But really when it comes down to it, being a girl really does suck. Not only do we have to deal with the wonderful visit from the Jaws fairy but we also have with the consequences that comes with it - no sex for a week, the awful cramps, the hormonal mood swings - don't ya just love it! No. Along with all those wonderful things of just a week long adventure we also grow up differently than boys and therefore we process things differently than them.

As girls we are taught to be pretty up front but ugly behind each others backs. Fighting isn't with fists it's with words (and in my opinion, it's much worse than fists). You must be beautiful to get what you want. Don't be too tall, too short, too fat, too skinny, too smart but playing dumb is always a good thing. My point is, is that we do things differently than guys and it's annoying. Who ever said we can't do what the boys do? I want to punch that person.

Because I'm a girl I have a tendency to over think and over analyze every my boyfriend says, doesn't say, how he says it and what he does. It's really annoying! I don't want to think about the tone of his voice when he said "I'm sorry" or "I love you". I don't want to think so far in depth about things that they start to drive me crazy but I can't help it!

If there is one thing guys should learn to understand it is that we don't do these crazy stupid things on purpose. It's the way our brains are wired. Kind of like how a guy always has his hand down his pants but "isn't touching anything". We are hardwired and brought up to think about these things. Beats me why. The world might be easier to live in for all of us if we didn't

The worst part is that we don't even do this with just our significant others. I know when my best friends are upset because of the tone of their voices, the words they use, their slight body language, hell probably even the way they play with their hair. We do it to each other and we expect one another to know. When I'm upset with my best friend I always expect her to pick up on it. If she doesn't, well I get even more pissed off and really I don't have a right to if I don't say anything in the first place.

After that little tangent - my point is I hate that I feel the need to analyze everything my boyfriend does to figure out if he is happy or not. I think it has a lot to do with society and how we are raised. For the most part guys are going to be straightforward. But since we as girls but divulge further into the situation to figure out what they are truly feeling, often times we dive too deep and find things we didn't want to in the first place or find nothing at all. We can search and search and search for something to be wrong, but are we really ever satisfied until we find something that is wrong? I certainly hope not.